Today,my dear hubs gave me a very pleasant surprise at work.He sent me flowers.How nice is that.My colleagues all commented that he is very sweet.They even thought that today is my birthday.Hehe.

Went home after work,had my daily 45mins gym session..but with Keong today.Super fun to have company while exercising.The super lazy ME is like finally exercising,and has learnt to enjoy it.How strange is that eh?

Had a sumptous dinner opp Yishun Emerald and home sweet home.

My 2 darlings are currently fast asleep right now,and I'm here infront of the computer trying to finish my Forensic Heros 2 drama series.

Chu Shi Chu Shi tml!!!It has been so long..still deciding wanna bring Javier go anot.Hmmmmmmm

Thank you hubs,I had a memorable 3rd anniversay.

"I must be strong"

Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.

How to Get Along with Me

Stand up for yourself... and me.
Be confident, strong, and direct.
Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.
Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.
Give me space to be alone.
Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.
I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.
When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

What I Like About Being an Asserter

being independent and self-reliant
being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
being courageous, straightforward, and honest
getting all the enjoyment I can out of life
supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me
upholding just causes

overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to
being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it
never forgetting injuries or injustices
putting too much pressure on myself
getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit
are sometimes loners
seize control so they won't be controlled
fugure out others' weaknesses
attack verbally or physically when provoked
take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted
are sometimes overprotective
can be demanding, controlling, and rigid

Updates of the most important guy in my life

Two Darling Piggys

I always feel damn low on Sunday nights bcos I start having Monday blues by then.

What makes it worse is when I have to sit beside this headwrapper with a stuck up arrogrant attitude while at work.I always look forward to Fridays when I dun have to see her cos she usually takes mc or off on Fridays.

The Malays in my company totally CANNOT MAKE IT.Its like the politics is between the Malays & Chinese.I really dun understand why the lazy ones are always them.They should really reflect on themselves before they lose their jobs.

Anyways.....

FINALLY got to go out on a Saturday night.All dressed up but wore slippers cos Keong was wearing quite slack with slippers.Trained down to Orchard to catch the Taka finals but who knows we brought the rain with us cos when we reached,it started to rain heavily.

Went to Thai Disco at Golden Mile.Boring..Unexpected decision to club at Dbl O with dear Cheryl.Unable to get in due to inappropriate footwear.So cabbed down to Ming Arcade to this happening BANGKOK.Left at 3.30am and slept like a pig after that.

Brought Javier out today to meet my dear Cheryl.Slacking session at Void deck before Makan session at Bubble Tea Hut.Cabbed back home.

Keong is out for Guard Duty today.I kinda miss him now.

I am so looking forward to hang out with Cheryl.

Work ROCKS.

I so dun wanna defer my studies anymore.BUT I am so damn busy nowadays with work.Well,I got confirmed already.3 months of almost doing nth &suddenly all the work come piling on me.My dad isnt really happy that I mentioned that I wanna defer my studies.Let me work out a way so that I can priortize my time properly.

And now my director has given me a rather big project.Its still a long way to go but I'm glad that I am given this chance to climb up the career ladder.But something I dun quite like is that sometimes due to meetings,I cant go out for lunch.I hate lunch meetings.I need to go out and breathe..& joke with my colleagues to de-stress.

HDB sent us a letter to select our flats for Punggol Sapphire.Hope we can really get it this time.However,some things keep me thinking..Are we ready to get a house of our own??The bills,the household chores,who is going to take care of Javier,etc etc etc.Although it only be ready a few years later,are we financially capable ,ready mentally & physically?Are we mature enough to have our own house?

I feel that a blog is a place that we write about our life happenings and how we feel about the things we meet in life.I read blogs but sometimes I dont understand y some bloggers only blog when they have bought something 'expensive' or whatsoever.Do they really have nothing to write,or they just wanna show off.I really wonder...

(this is of my own personal opinion & I hold no personal unhappiness with anyone.And I mean it)